Healthy Health

At this prime age of 33, i seem to be concern about my health. I am lacking breath easily, got some cysts in my ovaries, and am working in a Japanese company which makes you work non-stop.

Well, take a deep breath...... ahhh.... and now get back to worK!

His Needs are not Hers

Marriage is a special relationship in which
a couple commit themselves to meeting
intimate needs of each other on an
exclusive basis. A man may have the best
intention to meet his wife’s needs but if he
thinks that her needs are similar to his, he
will fail miserably, and vice versa. In His
Needs, Her Needs, Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr.
identified that men and women have 5
very different emotional needs.
Her needs tend to be:
1. Affection
2. Conversation
3. Honesty and Openness
4. Financial Support
5. Family Commitment
His needs tend to be:
1. Sexual Fulfilment
2. Recreational Companionship
3. Attractive Spouse
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration

Our parents

Something that we do often take for granted.

This is about a man who tells how his booking an air ticket for his father, his first flight, brought emotions and made him realize that how much we all take for granted when it comes to our parents.

My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never travelled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same.

In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Lufthansa.

The moment I handed over the tickets to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage check-in and asking for window seat and waiting restlessly for the security check-in to happen.

He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him experience all these things.

As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal to him. When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me.

But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life.

As a child how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for football, dresses, toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have satisfied to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes?

Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us?

Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school.

Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have to give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young, it is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.

Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at those moments.

Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care need to be given to our parents and elders.

Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes. Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too.'

Take care of our parents. Don't take them for granted and make them feel small and unwanted in their old age. They too have feelings/dreams/hope/aspirations/wishes (and many broken/shattered ones) too while sacrificing them to give us our needs and our wants.

If you think this is worth reading, pls share it with others too.

The Optimist's Creed

"To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature I meet.
To give so much time to improving myself that I have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
To think well of myself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words, but in great deeds.
To live in the faith that the whole world is on my side, so long as I am true to the best that is in me."

"I promise myself ..." The Optimist's Creed.
Christian D. Larson (1874-1954)

Life Is Too Short

Life Is Too Short,
Break The Rules, Forgive Quickly,
Kiss Slowly, Love Truly,
Laugh Uncontrollably,
And Never Regret Anything
That Made You Smile.
Life May Not Be The Party
We Hoped For,
But While We're Here, We Should Dance...

USED vs LOVED

A forwarded email that should be kept as a reminder!

>It is true, sometimes, anger and love have no
> limit.
> Must read...............
> USED Vs. LOVED

> While a man was polishing his new car, his 4
> yr old son picked up stone and scratched lines on the side
> of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand and
> hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench. At
> the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple
> fractures. When the child saw his father with painful
> eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
> The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car
> and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own
> actions........sitting in front of that car he looked at the
> scratches; the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.

> The next day that man committed suicide. . .
> Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a
> beautiful, lovely life.....
> Things are to be used and people are to be
> loved, But the problem in today's world is that,People
> are used and things are loved...During this
> year, let's be careful to keep this thought in mind:
> Things are to be used, but People are to be loved ...
> Be yourself......This is the only day we HAVE. Have a nice day and Best regards

> Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch
> your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits they become character;Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder..God bless you;
> I hope you are having a wonderful day!

Prana (Breath)... The Vital Life Force Energy

By Dr Rita Khanna

Prana Vayu
The breath is the key action for Prana & can be experienced strongly as it moves within the head in practices of Pranayama and Meditation. It circulates in the area around the heart and throat. It gathers at the navel and from there is distributed throughout the body. The Prana Vayu is the energy of the Anahata / Heart Chakra. It governs the intake of energy via food, drink, breath, impressions, emotions, thoughts and consciousness. Its element is air. It maintains the life system by filtering & warming up the air taken in through the nose. When Prana is sufficient, no disease can affect us. It brings right receptivity, love & compassion. When Prana is not sufficient, we start feeling weaknesses, stiffness & negativity in the body & mind. Diseases like asthma, anxiety, insomnia, headache, high or low BP and ringing of the ears can affect us. The awareness of Prana-Vayu creates a focus to lift, lengthen and open the upper body

Udana Vayu is in the opposite direction of Prana Vayu. It operates the region from the throat to the brain. It controls the entry points of food, air & governs the output of energy via our expression through speech, physical effort, emotional enthusiasm and mental judgment.

Its element is Ether / Sky. It is related to Vishudi / Throat Chakra. When UdanaVayu is in balance, it brings right aspiration in life, right values combination skills, gratitude, spiritual, philosophical, religious & chaste life. But when in an imbalanced state, it leads to person being overly proud, arrogant, sad, irritating & shouting. Diseases like belching, vomiting, sore throat, sinus, headache, earache, epilepsy & speech problems like stammering can affect us.

At death, it rises up from the body and directs us towards various subtle worlds according to the power of our will and karma that move through it. The awareness of Udana Vayu, creates a focus to maintain a long spine and a correct posture.

Vyana Vayu
Vyana Vayu circulates along the whole body distributing the energy from food & breath through lymphatic & nervous system. It controls all physical movements including the flow of breath, senses, emotions, thoughts, elimination of toxins and coordination between mind & body. It transports the absorbed Prana to the places where it can work and express itself. Its element is Water. It is related to Swadhisthana / Hara Chakra. When VyanaVayu is in balance, it brings mental peace, creativity, perfection, punctuality, luxury, wealth, patience, inner power, humbleness, knowledge, right action and action in harmony with our values, aspirations, including the free expansion of thought, emotion, perception and consciousness. But when in an imbalanced state, it leads to depression, frustration, disappointment, defeat, superstition, doubting, lack of coordination between mind and body and difficulty in movement particularly while walking.

Diseases like menstrual problem s, gyne, menopause, leucorrhoea, prostrate glands, urinary, colitis, excess water accumulation in stomach, depression, frustration & snoring can affect us.

The awareness of Vyana-Vayu creates a focus of strength and fluid movement of body.

In short, Prana and Udana work opposite to Apana as the forces of energization versus those of elimination. Similarly, Vyana and Samana are opposites as expansion and contraction. This is much like the working of a machine. Prana brings in the fuel, Samana converts this fuel to energy, Vyana circulates the energy to the various work sites. Apana releases the waste materials or by products of the conversion process. Udana governs the positive energy created in the process and determines the work that the machine is able to do.

Breathing Theraphy

(from a forwarded email)

Our noses have left and right nostrils. Are these nostrils having the same function for inhaling (breathe in) and exhaling (breathe out)?
Actually it's not the same and we can feel the difference. Accordingly, the right side represents the sun and the left side represents the moon.
When having headache, try to close your right nostril and use your left nostril to do breathing for about 5 minutes. The headache will be gone.
If you feel too tired, do it the opposite way. Close your left nostril and breathe through your right nostril. After a while, you will feel refresh again.
Because the right side belongs to heat, so it gets hot easily.. The left side gets cold easily.
Women breathe mainly with their left nostril, so they get calm down easily.
Men breathe mostly with their right nostril, so they get angry easily.
When we wake up, do we notice which nostril breathes faster? Is it the left side or the right side?
If the left nostril breathes faster, you will feel very tired. Close your left nostril and use your right nostril for breathing and you will get refresh quickly. You can teach your kids about it. The effect of breathing therapy is much better for adults.
I used to have painful headache. When consulted a doctor, he told me jokingly, "You will be all right if you get married!" The doctor did not bullshit me as he had his theory and supported with testimony.
During that time, I used to have headache every night and I was not able to study. I took medicine but I was not cured.
One night as I sat down to mediate, I closed my right nostril and breathed with my left nostril. In less than a week, it seemed that my headache problem had left me! I continued doing it for about a month and since then there was no recurrence of headache in me.
This is my own experience. I used to tell others who also suffer headache to try this method as it was effective for me. It also works for those who have tried as well. This is a natural therapy, unlike taking medicines for a long time may have side effect. So, why don't you try it out?
Practice the correct ways of breathing (breathe in & breathe out) and your body will be in a very relaxing condition.

Global Recession- views from my dad

I asked my dad a few months ago regarding the current economic situation. I was wondering how the economy would recover as I would consider this as my first time in my life to face a recession.
They say in life you would at least encounter one recession in the economy.
Well, my dad gave me a shocking answer:

"In order for the economy to recover, there would be a war." And he spoke so calmly about it.

"Huh,WAR???"
I was astonished... I thought I heard wrongly.

"How come it would need a war?"

"Well, the last time, the economy was that bad was during the depression, and the economy recovered after the world war 2", he said, reflecting on the history of things that happened.

You see, my dad is always good with History, and he can tell you a lot of stories, REAL stories about war too. He was also good at predicting things and have wise remarks, sometimes shocking remarks like this time. Anyway, I took his words as words of wisdom and see if things would really happen that way or not.

A few weeks later, I was curious to find out if he was sure things would happen as he had mentioned, then well, he can let people know about it, and be FAMOUS when your predictions come true!
But his wise reply was "You cannot say that there will be war in order for the global recession to end, cause you will be called a WARMONGER."

Oh, there again, his remarks made me pause to think in surprise. I haven't heard of the word "warmonger" for quite awhile. And being called a "warmonger" seems like a crime.

Now, after a few months since his views about the global recession, today's news published "Global Recession worst since WW2":
"And with the tremendous number of unemployed people comes the possibility of political unrest."

Shhh... we still are in the midst of a bleak and dark economy, let us wait to see what happens.... and please don't mention about war although it may be true.

This is a master piece.

If you have not read it take the time to read it now.If you have read it take time to read it again!
GEORGE CARLIN (He recently died)
Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's -could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.

A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years tolife not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.

We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less.

We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember; say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember; to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember; to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it.

A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.Remember; to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.


George Carlin

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Origin of ooze along

This website came about when I had the thought of starting a new concept of education that would be better than tuition.

Yeah, simply attending tuition classes is not enough. The purpose of education is to educate a person with the proper skills in life, not just being "smart in school subjects".

We have grown to forget about being curios, about exploring, about asking more... other than our school curriculum.
Life is more than that, and life is all about facination, imagination, creativity, emotions, and being able to bring value to society.
This blog is created to join hands with those who feels that there is something that can be done to improve the education system here in Malaysia. We just don't wait for something to happen.
Here, at atom-center, we create it....